Where the dream begins, Westerfield.

We have been employed to provide the entertainment for a private party. Unfortunately, it’s one of those “Oh, you can do pretty much what you want” parties, which sounds great in principle, but musicians, like golden retrievers and professional footballers, work best under instruction. “We’ll go out and play for forty five minutes, then we’ll take a break for fifteen to review the first half performance” is a mantra recognizable to most of us, although it’s fairly unusual these days for one of us to be pulled off at half time*. Similarly, in the case of sweaty-fingered drummers, “Go and fetch that stick for me, would you?” is a not wholly unfamiliar phrase. Ours coincidentally also has a very nice coat and spends a lot of the gig being told to sit, and if you’re very nice he might let you tickle his tummy. Ahem, moving on before we get too involved in the simile, if you were going to let me do “pretty much” what I want to at a party then it’s a fair bet that each gig would start with a twenty minute version of Neil Young’s “Powderfinger” before we raided the beer stash and passed out under a pile of coats, and there are very few paying hosts that need that in their lives. There are also a disproportionate number of musicians in our band who need that sort of thing - disproportionately small, in my view, but there you go. In the case of at least one other band member (no names, no pack drill), I can well imagine that “doing what he wants” would involve smoking a fatty on the sofa while sprawled in front of the sort of DVD you can only get via mail order while an oiled flunky collects his gig money for him and pops it through the door, and to be fair you can see his point. The Other Guitarist, however, thoroughly enjoys these get togethers on a purely social basis and so we feel constrained to turn up in person, whatever the weather, especially since on this occasion our hosts have been kind enough to hold over the party from last year purely on the basis that we and the hog roast man couldn’t make it on the same evening. Not a biggy for the vegetarian wing of the band, but considered a splendidly considerate gesture by three fifths of the line up. That it now coincides with an England world cup game is little inconvenience. It’s an afternoon kick off and seems unlikely to require the sort of creative excuses needed when you simply have to catch the end of the game, half an hour’s extra time and then a penalty shoot-out before taking the stage. On that occasion we were at least embarrassed enough to give half the money back, given that we didn’t start playing until about twenty minutes before closing time, and we didn’t even get a pizza ad out of it either. Thanks a lot, Southgate. (On the upside, the hen party that had gone out on a Wednesday night purely in order to avoid having to watch the football at home were patient enough to hang on for us, which was nice).
It’s unusual for this kind of thing to happen – after all, you wouldn’t expect the Sultan of Brunei to hold off for a year because (say) Keith Richards had fallen out of a tree and couldn’t make the gig, however improbable that sounds – he’d probably just get Sting to do it instead**, and so we approach the show with all due diligence and preparation – ensuring that we know exactly when the food starts, and where the free bar will be situated in relation to the performing area. Knowing your timings and having a pre-prepared route can be vital in shaving vital seconds off that tricky interval-based refueling session. We also ensure that everyone is available for the gig and will be at least in the right post coded area on the night. Last weekend I caught up with an old friend who now does this sort of thing much more successfully (and in a far more lucrative fashion) than we do, who admitted that within his circle of concern there are around five bands of the same name circling the Home Counties at any one time, all drawing from the same well of musicians and faxed set lists. Blimey, we had enough trouble when The Singer went to The States for a couple of months and we filled in as a four-piece without starting to try and organize ourselves like a Sunday league cricket club (“You don’t mind opening today do you, only Ginger’s away with the first team in Tring…”). I imagine that’s why we have the fun we do at parties like this. And why folk’d rather call the whole thing off than go ahead without us. There ain’t no party like a Picturehouse party.


* ker-tissshhh!!!
** I used to work at a video duplication company who got the contract to run off a few copies of one of The Sultan’s kids’ birthday parties. You get more than a few balloon animals and a goody bag with some refreshers in at one of those things, I can tell you. Mind you, if we get annoyed when someone insists that we stop the set half way through to sing “Happy Birthday”, imagine how Bryan Adams must feel.